Good morning
my Dear Children. When you are where I
am in life, I want you to have things differently. We always want to give the
next generation better than we had. Please take hold of the people and things
that really matter and make your life count with them. Make it real and do NOT set yourself up to be
questioned by those who love you the most. They should know how you feel by your telling
them and showing them. Children have to
be taught.
I am on the
other side of this coin now and looking back the picture is not always pretty,
so please learn from the lessons I did not learn soon enough. You two held me together and held me in high
esteem through all of the joy and pain. Yes, listen to your heart but think with your
minds also. Yes you should have the kind
of love you give but it comes with a price.
Love with absolute selfishness.
Do not apologize for your love but do not sacrifice the joy, love, respect
and happiness of those who love you to have only what you want. Looking back you will realize the value of
loving and being loved. Accept no
substitutes. There are no escape clauses at the end of it all. Be open, honest and ask questions!!!!!!!! You
cannot know people without asking them the hard questions. I know you both and you always do the right
thing. Thank you for that. You two are my crowning achievements in this
world and I feel selfish taking credit for any of your learning and knowing and
being.
I did not
realize how hurtful people could be. It
often seems you cannot get over the pain and disappointment. Sometimes you may think it is just you and you
are not everything you should be, but the truth is people are users and
selfish. It is “One dog, one bone,” as they say. They know how to protect themselves but they
also know how to make you think you are important and loved by them. That is the double standard. Beware of it. The pain is when they pass you
over for other people and even things.
That pain can go deeper and cause you to feel unimportant and
devastated. You must remain real,
honest, and a caring person who would do almost anything to help others. All of this pain makes you feel that you are
the selfish person and you only do for them to make yourself feel good. That is not true because you do things
unselfishly on purpose and many times automatically.
Are you
selfish? Yes you are. You do not think of yourself first but you do
think of yourself, your needs, your wants, and your happiness
Always know
where you came from: GOD
Always know
who you are: GOD’S CHILD
Always know
where you are going: BACK TO GOD
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